Showing posts with label real talk. Show all posts
Showing posts with label real talk. Show all posts

Monday, January 11, 2021

America. Great. Again.


I watched the events of Wednesday’s attack on the Capitol unfold in real time.  I had tuned in to listen to the proceedings in Congress, disgusted as senators and representatives voted to object to the results of our free and fair election.  (Voted to disenfranchise EVERYONE, by the way—not just those of us who voted for Joe Biden.)  I was horrified as I watched the rioters breach the building, but I felt (what I now know to be) a false sense of safety for people inside.  The news correspondent I watched calmly reported as she was shepherded with lawmakers to the undisclosed safe location.  Now, as I watch the horrific videos of the mob menacing and beating police officers, smashing glass, chanting “Hang Mike Pence”, I realize just how close incredible danger came to the people working inside the Capitol Building.  It was a lynch mob deprived of its intended victims.  As I try to internalize the reality that the President of the United States set this violent mob on its march to the Capitol and then refused to provide emergency protection when things got out of control, I am horrified to realize just how dangerous this moment is for our country and all of us.  

There is no equivalence between this mob and the Black Lives Matter protests and riots of the summer, as some on the right have suggested.  The BLM protests were borne of the grief and frustration and helplessness that resulted from watching another innocent black man get murdered by police.  Did those protests at times turn violent and destructive?  Yes.  But they were not egged on by the leaders of “the left”.  Joe Biden did not condone the violence.  


This mob is a class unto itself in American history.  At the behest of the president and loser of the 2020 election, this mob intended to disrupt the proceedings of government at the precise moment it was to certify Joe Biden as president-elect of the United States.  They came prepared with guns, bombs, and zip-ties.  They built a gallows and hung a noose.  They killed a police officer and drove another to suicide.  The twin goals of this mob and its enablers: sedition and terror.


And yet, they practically waltzed into the Capitol.  As many have already commented and as all but the most deluded know, had such a mob been planned and formed by black and brown men, that day would have had a very different outcome.  Riot police would have been prepared and deployed as they were during the BLM protests over the summer.  Countless members of the mob undoubtedly would have been shot.  But the benefit of the doubt is always and only afforded to white men.  We watched the most rotten advantage of white privilege on full display: the permission to invade and destroy.   


It seems almost a poetic summation of all Trump hypocrisy.  Was this the “law and order” they cite?  Do patriots (as Ivanka called them) show love of country by smearing feces in the halls of Congress?  Love is patient, love is kind, it is never rude.  Can we honor “blue lives” and the stars and stripes as they did, by beating police officers with the American flag?  Or is the real way to thank a cop to bludgeon him to death with a fire extinguisher? We watched the literal manifestation of the ways white resentment has hollowed out our ideals and rendered words meaningless.


The mob is just one piece of the existential danger America faces at this moment.  Another, perhaps more enraging component is the mob’s enablers: all those who spread lies about the security of the election, who raised hopes it could be overturned, those who have actively done Donald Trump’s bidding for the last five years and those who passively ignored the warnings of his unfitness, all who carelessly sacrifice norms and traditions of American democracy in pursuit of power.  The Republican Party is irredeemable by its support of President Trump and its complicity in the subversion of American democracy.


How do they not understand the glaringly obvious: that Donald Trump is only loyal to himself?  He will feed any of his followers to the wolves as soon as it benefits him to do so.  Mike Pence—the most loyal servant—literally faced a lynch mob sent by his boss because he refused to abuse his ceremonial role of certifying the results of the election.  Gallows built, noose hung, crowd chanting “hang Mike Pence”.  The crowd egged on by the president, told “we love you” by the president.  And still Mike Pence won’t say the president is unfit to hold the office.  And still Ted Cruz and Josh Hawley and countless others voted to object to the results of a free and fair election.  As Clare Malone (one of my favorite political observers) often says, partisanship is a hell of a drug.  


There is a straight line from the “Unite the Right” march of neo-Nazis in Charlottesville to this mob’s attack on the Capitol, and there is no guarantee the line ends here.  I fear the likelihood of its escalation.  That likelihood is why Trump must be removed from power immediately and all his enablers held to account.  His patterns are known and reliable—every norm he breaks is a crack he eventually tears wide open.  This latest broken norm is the most significant: America’s tradition of the peaceful transfer of power is over.  We are nearing collapse.  If history is any guide, these events can get much uglier.  We must act now if we do not want political violence to become our new normal.


The number one priority of Joe Biden’s presidency must be to shore up democracy. He must boldly and swiftly face the emergency of this moment.  Thankfully he will have the power.  He must use it.


A few ideas how:


  • Combat the trend of minority rule by abolishing the electoral college and directly electing the president
  • Reform nepotism laws
  • Require all candidates to disclose tax returns
  • Reform the presidential pardon power
  • Grant DC and Puerto Rico statehood
    • Statehood would provide insulation from the whims of a vindictive president—the ability to call in its own National Guard, etc.  Events of January 6 and (reaching further back) the aftermath of Hurricane Maria show us that the power to protect Washington and Puerto Rico must not be in the hands of the president.
  • Prosecute all those responsible for the attack on the Capitol to the fullest extent of the law.



There can be no unity with traitors.  There can be no forgiveness when there is no sorrow.  We must understand the immediate danger of this moment and hold to account all those responsible for how we got here.  


The President will travel tomorrow to Alamo, Texas to tout the “success” of his border wall.  Do not mistake the significance of the name of that town.  He is emboldened and he will further agitate his dangerous followers.  


Hitler’s first attempt to overthrow the German government—the “Beer Hall Putsch”—was in 1924.  The Nazis failed that time, but they were never stamped out and successfully completed their “revolution” nearly a decade later.  The Holocaust swiftly followed.  It can happen here.  We are watching it happen here.  We must stamp out this evil before it is too late.


Tuesday, June 2, 2020

Black lives matter.


I’ve always used writing as a way to process my feelings about events around me. I can look back at times in my life when I wrote nearly nothing and recognize I was avoiding issues and feelings I needed to address. I think that’s why the Blob has been so silent recently. To truly process the events in America over the last few days (and weeks and months and years) would be to admit things about us I don’t want to admit. It would be painful and scary and sad.

But whatever I feel now in writing this is nothing compared to the pain felt by those who see themselves, their brothers, sons, and fathers in George Floyd as he gasps for his last breath.

The only thing I can permit myself to feel is shame. Shame that I ever thought racism was a thing of the past. Shame that someone can look at me with the legitimate fear that I could be an Amy Cooper walking my dog. Shame that I know people who will continue to repeat the “bad people on both sides” garbage. Shame that America continues to hold down the people who most embody her ideals. Shame that we are “led” by a man who delights in the inequality and violence.

How can we look our fellow Americans—fellow human beings—in the eye?

All we can do is give. Give money, time, love. We can practice radical empathy toward every person we meet, wherever and whenever we meet them.

We cannot give up America. We cannot give in to anger or despair. Justice will prevail, but not by default. We can only make it happen with discipline and love. Be safe and be smart.




Sunday, December 17, 2017

A coup in America.

This segment followed by this segment make me about as hysterical as a Fox News host when Barack Obama wears a tan suit.  I feel crazy.  But I think this is incredibly alarming and probably evil shit.  






This is the test of American democracy.

If this White House continues to discredit the FBI, sowing misinformation via their propaganda media arm, insinuating without real evidence that FBI officials were planning subversive activity against the president, we very well may be witnessing a coup—the hostile takeover of the American government by anti-democratic forces and their idiot stooges.

This is what happens in authoritarian regimes—the demonization of the “other”, the undermining of checks on power, the banning of words, the consolidation of that power.  The circumstances are said to be so dire we must put aside the law.

The circumstances are dire, and that’s why we must cling to the law. 

The foundation of our government, those precious values in our Constitution, is under assault.

We, the people, must cling to the law if our leaders will not.

This is the chaos Vladimir Putin wanted when he interfered in our election.  He wants to make a mockery of us, and he’s had definite success.  But his target is not just the office of the president—it’s our whole system of government and society.  He wants the world to see that we as Americans do not value our greatest strength—that we are a nation of laws, and not of men.

If we want to preserve the republic, we, the people, must prove him wrong.

We, the people, must demand our leaders are held accountable to the law.

Congress, representative of the people, must impeach President Trump if he fires Robert Mueller.  The people must demand it.

This is not sexy stuff.  But democracy is destroyed by gradual disintegration from within.  A series of events make up that gradual decline.  The election of Donald Trump was one such event.  The removal of Robert Mueller would be another. 

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I’m not a big protest person, but I will participate if Trump crosses this line.  Consider finding an event near you. 

Monday, December 11, 2017

Belated birthday message.

I find I'm getting pretty cheeseball in my old age, so please bear with me.  Also if you've been watching the Crown and imagine this in the style of the Queen's Christmas message, I won't be upset.

My husband and I--

Oops sorry, got a little too into being the Queen.  I don't have a husband.  Ahem.

I'm fairly sure my 28th year on this planet would hold its own against most soap operas.  It at least holds the record for number of times yours truly has said, "You've got to be fucking kidding me."  (Nobody was ever kidding.)

It would be easy to dismiss 2017 as a miserable year.  There's been a lot of bad shit.  But I'm not about doing things the easy way.  Some really wonderful things have happened this year.  

My best friend in the entire world got engaged to her (other) best friend in the entire world and I've never been so sure two people belong in each other's lives.  They are going to adopt me and we will live happily ever after in DC with our dogs and cats.  (Can't wait to join you guys on the honeymoon, it's gonna be great.)  

I have two beautiful nieces who give me hope and remind me to keep fighting.

I've made some lifelong friends in San Francisco.  (You're stuck with me, bitches.  Kisses.)

Most importantly, I really think a miracle happened this week.  (I told you this would get cheeseball.)  I'm not always sure God is a real thing, but he got several checks in his column over the past few days.  The last time I felt this sure there is a God, I was laying on the ground in Victoria Park in London having a small personal crisis when a puppy rushed in from out of nowhere and attacked my face with kisses.  Hard to compete with that.  (The puppy probably just liked that my face was sweaty from running, but still.  Higher power.)

Here's to all of us getting out of 2017 alive and maybe even well.  And here's to me becoming a 29-year-old hermit.



Thursday, August 17, 2017

Robert E. Lee is Deplorable: A Treatise on Charlottesville

One reason I’ve been bad about keeping up with the blob is that I’m exhausted and speechless at our constant deliveries of fresh bullshit from Trumpworld.  This is not sustainable.  This shit is piling up and reeking.  America’s existential question seems less “will we drown in shit?” and more “how quickly will we drown in shit?”

I’ve been thinking a lot about Robert E. Lee.  We have a Robert E. Lee problem.  We don’t think of Robert E. Lee as the guy who led the fight to keep black people enslaved.  We remember him with a sort of apologetic romance—the guy who was personally opposed* to slavery, but could not take up arms against his beloved Virginia, who would rather oppose the Union than sacrifice his sacred Southern honor.  We felt sorry that he died without his American citizenship restored, so our Congress posthumously awarded it to him in 1975.  Bless his heart.

What is that all about?  I don’t feel sorry for this guy.  He used that classic “but it’s the Southern way of life” line to excuse some pretty awful shit.  I’m glad they turned his family’s ancestral home into the premier cemetery for the war’s dead.

At the outbreak of the Civil War, Robert E. Lee was faced with a serious moral decision—fight for your country against slavery and your home or fight for slavery and your home against your country.  The item that defines the morality of that decision is slavery, but the item that steered General Lee was his home.  A sentimental choice?  Yes.  A morally correct choice?  No.  He picked the wrong side.  I see no honor, Southern or otherwise, in his choice.

Why am I going on about this?  This is not an argument about the statues.  Take them down, get over it, assholes.  Chances are, your beloved statue got put up by white people trying to assert their dominance over bIack people during Jim Crow or the civil rights era.  Is that the heritage you want to celebrate?  Congrats.  I’m talking about the morality of our choices.  Many of us chose to vote for a man who now (unsurprisingly to others of us) cannot whole-heartedly disavow white supremacists and anti-Semites.  A man who declared there were “fine people” in the group that marched into town wielding torches and chanting “Jews will not replace us.”  Friends and family who voted for this man, can you condone this?  What are the limits of our excuses for vile behavior? for race-baiting and dog-whistling?  Will we not stand up while he perverts our democratic values?  while he spits on the sacrifices made by our grandparents to defeat Nazis and fascism?

I ask you to think about what defines the morality of your choice to condone or disavow the words of this man.  I’ll give you some hints: it’s not your party affiliation, it’s not the “alt-left”, it’s not your pride, it’s not how much you hate Hillary Clinton.  None of that will justify (or has ever justified) your choice to support him.  The defining element of Donald Trump is the hatred he spews and promotes. If you support him and condone his words, you are complicit in his hatemongering. 

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One of my biggest regrets about Hillary Clinton’s campaign is that she did not double down on her “deplorables” comment, referring to that contingent of Trump voters.  She wasn’t wrong and it wasn’t a mistake.  I wish she had said to the squeamish Trump voter, “I dare you to tell me those people who would resurrect the KKK and who would dare to carry a swastika are not deplorable.  Do you want to be in their camp?”  You didn’t believe it then, but it’s still true—you’re in their camp.  And they are making the rules.  How long do you want to stick around?


I promise next post will not be so doom and gloom.  Maybe we will explore possible reasons my dentist and I always end up talking about prison. (?? it's so weird.)